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He's just not that into you!

     There is a book out co-written by actor, Greg Behrendt, (cowriter: Liz Tuccillo) from the popular show "Sex in the City" and it's called "He's just not that into you!". I saw him when he was on Oprah. It was quite interesting hearing his viewpoint. It might be true that, if a relationship is going nowhere, it should be dissolved, but here is what I have a problem with. What's going to happen with the next guy that comes along? Is he too not going to be into you? You see it's something that you are doing or not doing that may be causing him to not be into you.

     The one example they gave on Oprah was a woman who had this male friend that always called her and saw her quit regularly but had never asked her out on a date or tried to take the relationship to the next step. The thing I feel that she should be doing, before she moves on, is to see if he will step up to the plate. In other words when he calls she should be talking to him for about 15 seconds and then tell him she has to go. When he asks where, she needs to say something like, "I'm going out with some girl friends. They told me I need a man in my life so they want me to go out to a bar with them." Then she should say she has to get ready and she has to go. Basically make him see that if he doesn't step up to the plate he will lose her.

     The reason he is not stepping up to the plate may be that a lot of men are scared of being rejected and yes I know this is a weakness but it is the woman's job to build courage in her man. If he feels he will lose her then he will step up to the plate if his fear of losing her is greater then his fear of being rejected. He may feel that rather than lose her he would be satisfied with her being his friend and being able to talk to her whenever he needed to. If she makes the fear of losing her greater than the fear of rejection, or fear of commitment etc., then he will step up.

     If he does step up then she needs to keep doing the same thing so he keeps stepping up. It's a continuing thing. You can't do it just once and think it's going to work forever. If he then doesn't step up to the plate, she should realize that his fear of rejection is still greater than his fear of losing her because he probably doesn't believe he will lose her. If she really wants him in her life then she needs to apply all the secrets in our e-book, 3 Secrets to a Man's Heart so she can win him over and then she should get him to read our e-book, 3 Secrets to a Woman's Heart.

     In conclusion, if you think he's just not that into you and you feel you need to move on, if you feel, in any way that he might be worth it, then test him to find out for sure that it's not something else or else it may keep on happening in your life.

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